35 minutes ago, Spinland said:I have the idea that a lot of casual play doesn't involve time or points and I have zero expectations of getting into competitive OP. Again, I tend to feel negatively about that scene for the aforementioned expectation of aggressive NPE.
I can only speak for me, and the entirety of SE England, but the overwhelming majority are friendly and helpful enough that losing an outrageous mis-match in skill and meta can still be an enjoyable and educational social encounter. That doesn't change a lot with event size.
People rub each other up the wrong way on occasion, but it's very low key and rapidly put into perspective.
Casually, we sometimes forget to set a timer, but I've only ever played an agreed format, with points etc.