But some people have conflated wanting to adhere to the rules (ex: where angle should the ship be at when bumping? I actually think that is somewhat important because it does play into positioning for the next movement) as being a so called DB. it seems that to some people 'fly casual' means 'play like I want to play'
In the example I listed, a my version of 'fly casual' mentality would say (assuming this is a casual, 'game night' kind of game) 'hey um, you bumped there, is that the right angle to be at?" the opponent responds "hmm.. I don't know, (or don't care), it's not a big deal, they bumped, this makes sense" - to which I reply, 'well....ok. it's not a big deal. fly casual!'
In a tournament, I'd be asking for the TO to make a ruling. Courteously. But still, asking. And that does not a DB make. A DB reaction would be to shout the opponent down as a cheater, scrub, nerfherder, n00b, etc...publicly shame him, and maybe ask for a ruling or let it go but be a jerk about it after.
Edited by nathankc