21 minutes ago, AtoMaki said:Oddly enough, if you do it right (explain the reason, take responsibility, etc.) you end up with a net Honor gain .
Depends on the clan and the mitigating circumstances. Just flat disobeying is always dishonourable, but as noted refusing an order in your lord's best interests or 'creatively misinterpreting' them is less so (and often qualifies for a mitigating honour gain for some other reason).
For a Dragon (who halve the honour loss for Duty) it's a lot more common for 'orders' to be seen as 'guidelines', whilst for the Scorpion (who double it!) things have to be pretty bloody serious (see Bayushi Yojiro's careful tap-dancing around an order he knows is wrong)