To sum up in a nut shell
You: There is a problem with the balance of the game!!! Here's my new house rule to fix it!!!!
Us: That's not a problem, but lets humor you. Assuming that it's really a problem this is how you fix it.
You: That doesn't involve my house rule, why aren't you guys talking about balancing the game.
Us: We did, we just found an easier way to fix a non problem before it even actually becomes a problem.
You: Help me balance the game.
Us: ........
I think the real problem here is he doesn't want to see it as a problem of the People.
He wants the Game to make Up For the Laziness of the people and Make the Game Force Gms to Allow something not needed to allow Him to change his character when he decides it isn't as Uber as he would like.
Also I don't even think he Actually Reads all of peoples responses... Only the parts that say We do or don't agree.