Or did I make that up?
No such rule that I know of.
Here's the section from the Competitive Rules.
When acquiring a target lock, a player must first declare the intended target. Then, he measures range to the declared target to see if the target is within legal range. If the target is in range, the ship performing the action must acquire a target lock on the target. If the target is not in range, the player may declare a different target, or he may declare a different action.
Nothing like that in there.