Well, I am coming into that very situation right now. My force user. The player stated that it is his goal to never use a blaster in my campaign. Human nature: When confronted with opposition/confrontation it is the automatic feeling to go into that fight or flight mode.
So after the initial WTF are you talking about, are you fraking serious kind of feeling, I still have a game to run, two players are no shows, my meager plans flying apart like Alderaan. So unfortunately I became a little confrontational. I wouldn't say I lost my cool or composure, but it did set the tone for the evening. (At the time I didn't even realize it, it wasn't until I really looked back on it and worked through it that I came to that conclusion.)
So my initial fight or flight response was to fight. Why in the he££ would you want to play Star Wars and never fire a gun. Is this guy just trying to make life difficult? The after game conversation did not go very well. I was sober, I think that was the first mistake. ![]()
Now I have to decide what I am going to do. It is the natural human feeling and GM feeling to try to test him and push him into situations where "HE HAS TO DO WHAT I WANT" kind of thing. (You have to read that in a loud booming voice by the way.) I think that is a very human and primal response. (This is just between us ok, but he also said that he has been kicked out of every group he has played in in the area for playing characters "too eccentric", read too difficult)
Ok, so now I know I'm just dealing with an ***hole here. Again, do I want to push back on him, get rid of him because I know he is going to be a problem child. Or do I want to be the first GM in the area to actually have him become part of a team, be the first to let him play the kind of "character" he wants too. Ok, just deleted half my post here, on purpose.
So for me as an ancient GM, who is still trying to get better, I am going to keep my odd man out. At least for now, if he can at least meet me some of the way, not even half way, just a little. Ok, so he doesn't want to use a gun, big deal. Should I try to fight him on his goal, or should I help realize it. I feel a lot of GMs would instinctively feel "oh, we'll see about that". I know I did, and I know that it is wrong to go through with that. So for now I have my force using, person tossing, gun grabbing maniac in my group. If the Group decides that this character doesn't fit in, then we will address that as a Group. So for me, I have decided, as long as he is not trying to harm my fun factor, or the other players, why should I harm his? If it gets to that point where the only way he is having is by ruining others fun, then he may have to go. You have the right to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness, as long as that does not infringe on other's right to life, liberty, or pursuit of happiness.