This is probably a noob question but I wasn't able to find an answer for this anywhere:
When can you spend gold during Marshalling?
Here is the scenario that brought up this question:
We are playing a four player game. For this round, by turn order, I am Player 3. Player 1 Marshals, Player 2 Marshals. When it comes time for me to Marshal I first play Distraction to kneel one of Player 2's characters. I then pay to attach the Poisoned Coin to that same character of Player 2. In response, Player 2 pays to attach a Bastard to that same character, allowing her to get rid of the Poisoned coin. I initially protested, saying you could only spend gold during your turn of the Marshalling Phase. In addition, I compared it to paying gold to bring a Character in play; you wouldn't be able to bring a Character into play after your opportunity has passed so paying gold for other things such as Attachments and Locations, ideally, would abide by the same rule. However, I allowed it, accepting her logic that attachments did not abide by those rules and coupled with the inability to find anything saying that particular action could not be done despite a decent search.
Can anyone clarify this for me?
And one more thing, while I'm at it. I have Valar Morghulis in my plot deck to even the playing field every once in awhile. We have played under the assumption that Characters can be saved from this. For example, a Character with Nymeria attached or kneeling Ghost to save a Night's Watch character (I'm a Stark player if you haven't caught on to that yet). I guess to clarify, is that death instant or can Characters who are about to die kneel to save others (for example, Ghost to save a Night's Watchmen or the version of Tyrion Lannister that allows you to kneel a Clansmen to save him from being killed?).
Thanks in advance for your help.