So, the situation is that I run games for a group of up to 8 players. Of them, 5 are regular weekly players and 3 are occasional, every month or two players due to work shifts and geography.
I've been playing with these guys for years now so I don't want to exclude anyone.
How should I handle obligation? If I give starting obligation of 5, that would be way to low for regular sessions. If I put it at 10, that would be excessive for the few sessions every now and then when my table is full.
Should I only roll against obligation for those PC's in attendance (kinda breaks the 4th wall for me)? How would my fellow GM's handle this situation and this mechanic?