According to the "Golden Rule" on pg. 11 of the rule book, unless the word "cannot" (and I assume "can't") is present in a rule a card's effect takes precedence. With that in mind, would "A stinging insult" then force an opponent's unit that has one or more focus tokens to defend? As the declare defenders rule does not stat that focused units cannot defend, I would assume so.
Example: On my opponent's turn he attacked with Emperor Palpatine. On my turn I play "A stinging insult" targeting Palps to force him into an engagement where I can "safely" damage him.