Ok I have a question about game etiquette regarding non-optional actions such as renown/card draw/claim etc…
Lets say that you've won a challenge and had a character that should have claimed renown but you forgot to move the power over and then another challenge was initiated that might have been different had you claimed the renown. According to the rule text renown isn't necessarily an 'optional' response. The text says that it happens right? So at this point can the renown still be rewarded or has the opportunity to claim the renown passed even though it wasn't an optional action in the first place.
Same thing goes for things like opposing titles.. If I forget to claim the extra power immediately after I win a challenge against someone I oppose is the opportunity lost or can I still claim it.
Another example is Meereen for card draw. There were a couple of times I've triggered Meereen during a challenge but got so caught up in all the other responses to winning the challenge that I forgot to immediately draw cards and went on to the next challenge or even phase.. I've already triggered the response so I should get the card draw regardless? Or was the chance lost even though I've already triggered the response but just forgot to draw?
Also, lets say I have some refugees out that were supposed to be discarded from play when I lost dominance but I forgot to remove them and my opponent didn't notice. And since that time actions have happened that may otherwise have been different had they been removed from play like they were supposed to have been. Since the dominance phase has passed, do they remain in play or do I discard them? Do we try and reset back to the previous dominance phase even though cards may have been played since then?
How about in a multiplayer game where players begin marshaling phase without choosing titles? Do you reset back? or play the round without titles?
Personally I would think that it is the responsibility of both players to remember "Must happen" actions like renown/card draw/claim and that you could go ahead and take these "Must happen" actions even after the fact to avoid illegal game states. However I would like to know if there is any official stance on these types of situations or what the most common etiquette is.
Thanks.