the problem to me is not scale but power level of the capital ships. they are chalk full of turrets and launchers and iirc the only way the rebs actually killed a couple was to make them crash into each other not by actually shooting them down.
i think the capital ships are better as a doom tracker for a rebel scenario ie the rebels have X turns to complete a scenario before the star destroyers gets in range or the rebs have to take out a fleeing tie fighter before it makes it back to its destroyer. It could also be part of the battlefield that if the rebel ships enter a certain zone they are in range of a destroyer and take fire kind of like the rolls for collision.
my biggest worry for x wing is a lack of ships after wave 2. they have pretty much hit all the iconic ships in the prequel and there isnt much left for wave 3 and beyond.