TomH said:
Sinis - you are rules lawyering, don't kid yourself you're not. The whole game theme is about secrecy but you seem to want to find exceptions/occasions where you can pass on information. If your group are happy to play with you then that is fine, no lines crossed and all happy faces. Unfortunately you wouldn't go down too well and last too long in our groups - you would be seen as spoiling a fun game .... that's human beings for you - we're a strange and diverse lot.
Dude, what part about "I'm genuinely curious" and "I'm no longer sure I played within the rules" do you not understand?! I'm not looking for exceptions and I am not rules lawyering; I want to know what people think about it. There is nothing within the rules to forbid it, but I can see the concern of the ONE player in my group. The irony is that you mention the theme of 'secrecy' and then talk about being unsecretive about a communication. Forgiving that, your initial point about 'giving one person information' (which seems to be the very definition of being secretive) is still in debate, you'll notice that I have not yet said that I think it is against or within the rules to communicate with 'only one' person in a covert manner. I have only asked questions about how far one has to go about ensuring that everyone is aware of any given person's communications.
For the other two players in the majority, it was fine, but I do care about the enjoyment of others, even if it is one person out of the group. That's why I'm asking here, not because I want someone to tell me I'm right or wrong, I just want to see what other people think about it, and then perhaps change the way I play based on the responses and the reasoning behind them.
I think that it is fair to say that we're not 'revealing' secret information. Firstly, I'm not actually showing the card; I am stating something about my loyalty cards ("I'm human", "I'm Cylon") which should be fine in ordinary game play. If a person couldn't lie about their loyalty cards, the game wouldn't be very interesting. Revealing secret information would be flashing my "you are a cylon" card to someone, which is strictly against the rules. I could be lying to the sympathizer about being a Cylon, after all.
So, the problem (and it seems to some that there is one, I am undecided on the issue) lies with how I communicated it. Is there something wrong with covert communication, where I did not let the others know that I said something to my cylon buddy? Maybe, I don't know. It is not against the letter of the rules, but that does not mean a whole lot; we are (yes, me too) concerned with the spirit of the rules and the enjoyment of the other players.
As I said before, I wouldn't have posted here if I just wanted people to agree with me. I already had a majority consensus in my group, and the one person who thought it unsporting shrugged and said that it didn't feel right, but that it wasn't against the rules. If I was rules lawyering, why would I care what people here thought? Well, the answer is, surprise, that I'm not sure that covert communication between subsets of people is forbidden or allowed by the spirit of the rules, and that I am concerned with whether the odd man out in my last game had fun, and I wonder what the rationale is for other people, rather than just looking for 'proof' that I was right, as though opinions could even provide that.
Frankly, at this point, I find it hard to care what you think (your only assertions are either wrong or backed up by faulty reasoning about the rules), and the only reason I respond to your accusation of 'rules lawyering' is so that others might see that it is still an honest question and provide their unbiased opinion.
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