Has anyone else experienced this in their games? I love the board game, but this very facet of it is what is really making me want to make it a pretty shelf item more than actually play it.
I put many hours trying to shorten the game up--but keep it without any house rules--because most of the players I play with are new. This leads to me pouring through each of the manuals carefully, the race sheets, the FAQ, everything. I am not rewarded for my efforts with 'thanks' by the players, rather more of a 'he knows everything about this game, let's get him!' attitude.
I place in second or third most games, but never first. There is no way for me to win a game as everyone else in the game sees me as target number 1, just because I'm hosting the thing. This leads to a lack of fun for me, as I usually get three scenarios:
1. Players who know the game--and each other--who form a little alliance and place me in the sights
2. New players, who don't do anything really during the course of the game (which is fine, as they are new) who I am pretty much playing for, in order to teach them the ropes
3. Players who do nothing but 'troll', that is they just want to fight space battles and have no interesting in winning (seemingly)
I really do love when a good game comes together, and those times do happen, but sadly are few. During the other times, I try to soften the blow by letting everyone pick their races (which is a bit of a house rule I guess, but I digress), and I usually try to go with a stronger race in order to survive the impending 2 v 1. This has backfired a bit the last time, as it ended up being 3 v 1 (4-player game)...because I picked Yssiril...and well I'm sure those here know what that means.
So I guess the point of my rant is, any suggestions on how to make these 'team up' games more fun? I'm tempted to be very aggressive and try to wipe one off the board almost immediately, but I really hate doing that. I just want things to be fun, and not have someone sitting their watching the rest of the game (or leaving) because I had to basically be merciless in order to win.