I received a reply from Nate French regarding whether shadow cards are resolved that are dealt to enemies that are snared or feinted, Here is his response for anyone who might be interested:

"Shadow cards do not resolve if the enemy does not attack, and they are discarded with other shadow cards at the end of the combat phase.

Nate French
Senior Game Designer
Fantasy Flight Games"

I was wrong about this one too

If no one would be wrong, who would be right then?

if no-one was wrong and we all had different interpretations and opinions it would be very confusing.

you're very welcome

Thanks for posting this.

I just purchased the game today (and have already played it 3 times), and I ran into this question tonight.

Okay, time to go try out another sphere...

It was clear but it good to have an official answer in any case. Thanks