So. I'm kind of completely unsatisfied with how the current rules are worded.
I don't know... I just keep on rereading everything and wish that it was formatted better and had better examples... Yea...
Anyway, last night I got excessively bored and created a very awful diagram showing how an "action" window actually works. It looks like it was done by a five year old, but paint is very very easy to use... so shoot me!
It doesn't include disrupts (that's for another night!) and doesn't have the correct terminology, but I think if something like this existed, I wouldn't have had a lot of the questions that I asked when I first got to the forum.
Again, I know this isn't exactly the most professional looking thing, but I think it is pretty exhaustive. (Though... Sigh... Looking at it now I see that I'm missing a Forced Response window for opponents towards the end. I'll work on it soon!)