I haven't played much games yet but when I try to introduce the game to friends I just realized the idea of adjusting your stats using your focus is just... doesn't matter? in most cases at least.
I am going to go to another world and I have no idea what kind of check they're going to ask me. How the hell would I know that the next encounter is going to use my Lore Check or my Fight Check or my Sneak Check? it just seems too random to even bother with using the focus every turn. But that's why I'm posting this I just might be missing something?
It is true there are times when you go to fight a monster, you pump your fight stats (reducing your will) or if you want to travel long distances and you don't need to sneak (or have a bonus to sneak skill/item) you'd pump your speed..etc but there are many cases (drawing encounters) where it asks me to do some checks that I think are too random to even bother with adjusting your stats.
! No prolonged suffering and insanity.