7 minutes ago, Grand Admiral Buford said:Dude, when you discuss the game, you provide really good points for discussion. Very well articulated and reasoned even if I and others do not always agree, they are good. Your problem is that if someone disagrees with you, you get angry and defensive so fast that we all forget that you can and do make valid points elsewhere and can only see your petty tirades worthy of a petulant teenager. Try to lighten up, not take everything said as a personal attack and just enjoy the wonderful discourse about this great game. Don't bother to respond to me on this comment as I will not get dragged into one of your endless rants either, I am only pointing out how you come across to the vast majority of posters here.
I don't get angry. This is how I post. I reply to posts, regardless if they're replies to my posts or an original comment someone else has posted. I like to have conversations , not post a superficial comment or inane joke and move on.
The problem here -- and most forums and comments sections in general -- is that people don't like their opinions to be challenged in any way. They don't want a dialogue or discussion; they just want "Likes" and Followers. Whereas I enjoy debating . I'm good at it, for the reasons you recognized. I'm looking for a worthy opponent who is capable of arguing their side in the same way as I do; with facts, reason, and logical deductions, and is willing to make an effort. If I have a problem, it's that I tend to bulldoze people using those techniques. My arguments are designed to be unimpeachable, which is why no can refute them, or even tries.
Instead, they redirect the conversation in a subjective, emotional detour by accusing me of going off on "rants" or "tirades" and being "angry". An angry person doesn't compose replies the way I do. We've all seen ANGRY posts before. They tend to be short, often in ALL CAPS, riddled with profanity, and unmistakably emotionally volatile. That's because an angry person has a knee-jerk reaction and has to post their hot-headed reply immediately. They're not going to take 5-10 minutes to write a 1000 word post with proper punctuation, sentence structure, and point-by-point breakdown of the inciting incident. So by mischaracterizing my posts as "angry" you are only degrading your argument.
It's a trap to characterize me as "defensive" because how can anyone defend him/herself without appearing "defensive" to people? 🙄 If it's the choice between remaining silent and replying, I choose to reply. The only people who have a problem with that are the ones already prejudiced against me. An unbiased person should recognize and appreciate that replying to a post directed at you is a perfectly reasonable response.