So I've had this theory in my head for a while and Episode IX and Fallen Order did nothing but strengthen it. Hoping someone here can point me back in the right direction and assert that the Jedi were actually good guys.
We saw both Rey and Luke learn to use Force powers fairly quickly (and both in confusing timeframes). It is possible then that the Force did not take long and careful mentoring to master. The Jedi Council's actual reason for existing was to coral and control all force users from a young age possibly even limiting the potential of all or most in hopes of keeping them from straying to the dark side. Their mission of galactic peacekeeping was only because they needed something to do with these powers rather then just locking them in the Temple.
As I said, I like believing that the Jedi leadership (Yoda and Windu especially) were not stealing children to control them the same way the First Order was, but I need some hard evidence. Prove me wrong!