2 minutes ago, svelok said:this threads still going, huh
tbh I think the ethical question is interesting. My hypothetical was not in bad faith, I think one is worse than the other, but I can't say why.
And I do have a small personal interest in the question. In my case (not at a real life tournament), I forgot to engage and shoot with a ship. I skipped it and went to the next. I realized after and repeated the shot right away (the order didn't really matter). It became clear to me that my opponent wasn't happy with it, but also didn't want to insist on repeating everything or that I had missed my opportunity to attack. Technically, at a real event, we would have had to roll back the shot and then repeat it as far as I'm aware of the current opinions. Anyway, that had a big influence on the rest of the game. I was easily ahead when I shouldn't be if we had skipped the shot. So I conceded right before we had to call time.
So in my case I conceded to restore what I perceived to be the "correct" outcome. Yet that must irk @EVIL INC because I did it to alter the outcome. In this case it wasn't for my personal gain, but I doubt he'll make that distinction.