No matter what list I have, my tendency is to immediately try to go straight into the action and joust with my opponent. I think it's because when I first got into the game, I was using 3 B-wing or 3 A-wing lists. I would fly in, shoot off ordinance (RIP Harpoons), and get out.
However, the lists I'm learning to fly with 2.0 aren't quite set up the same way but I keep falling back into the pattern of going into the action sooner than I should, especially when I'm out-numbered.
I just listened to the most recent Radio TCX podcast where Carson Wray (I'd tag him if I knew he was on here or what his user name is) talked about his strategy in Phoneix last week using a Poe, Numb, and L'ulo list. Given the lower health of these ships, he talked about avoiding jousts and working on flanking the opponent. Obviously he's better than the average X-Wing player but I'd still like some basic insights into how to set a plan like that in motion.
This is a long-winded way to say, what can you do to avoid the itch to joust?