signoftheserpent said:
Not in those exact words but basically yes. Usually they believe, stubbornly so I might add, that they have done nothing wrong and seem to possess the mindset that their fun is the only fun that matters or that their way is the only way to play the game. Don't believe me, I have a list of freeform RP forums you can swing by, they're the worst for this sort of thing.
Finally, your arguement falls flat at one thing. This is ultimately a group activity. For better or worse, if the group is not having fun then something is wrong and it needs to be addressed. Unfortunately, group > one player. Fortunately, the OP actually managed to fix the problem in the most civil way possible. And one that actually makes the most sense within the context of the game I might add.
going back to the OP... Why is the engineer trying to be a combat god? Seriously, why? I'm all for being half-way competent in a field outside of your speciality but that? No, no, no... I'm suddenly grateful my group's own powergamer isn't quite as savvy.