2 hours ago, TauntaunScout said:No. Being accepting wouldn't make them jerks, but they aren't BEING accepting, they're just TALKING about it. A lot. And flipping it around so they can claim moral virtue via not-painting. Not requiring painting is being talked about an awful lot considering no one around actually requires painting and hasn't for years to my knowledge, and there's no painted armies in sight to mislead someone into thinking it's required. But yet it gets brought up over and over: "Paintings not required. We don't require painting here." Now, if someone in most of my local stores paints their army, suddenly they aren't like the rest of their friends. Never underestimate the power of conformity. But that gnarly old chipped grey army? That "proves" to your friends that you aren't elitist! It "proves" to your local scene that you are a hard bitten competitor who doesn't have time to stop strategizing to paint!
BEING accepting would be doing things not just talking.
Umm it's not actually. I've seen people do that thing with discs (well, empty bases) with names written on them. That's a legit question.
It is reductio ad absurdum. Saying "hey maybe don't have such a stick up your butt about your opponent having everything painted" is not at all the same as insisting he agree to everything not that which he lists in his parade of horribles.
Example: Me: Hey, maybe don't fly off the handle at everyone who accidentally bumps into you a little on the bus. Other Person:"What, so I should also let people just punch me in the face with all of their might?" (that is a thing people actually do, really, you can look it up and everything) Me again: No....just don't be a jerk about someone's honest mistake.
As for your talk of "virtue signaling" ya know, I'd say that this very discussion right here is why we have to keep mentioning that it's okay to not have all of your stuff painted. It's because we have some incredibly vocal people who insist on all players having their stuff painted. You can see them right in this very thread.
We have to keep putting up signs that everyone is free to cross the bridge because the trolls insist that people cannot. When the trolls finally stop insisting it...and when those who remember them insisting it finally die off, we won't need the signs anymore.
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