I am firmly of the opinion that huge ships should not be required to be Epic. This allows more people to participate and have fun, even if they don't own a huge ship. And since I'm there to have fun, if they demolish my huge ship, then at least they had a good time, and will likely play again. Honestly, the huge ships have so many weird rules, I understand if people aren't interested. For me, it adds that extra layer of complexity that makes Epic games engaging. My favorite is a Gozanti support ship, which doesn't play the way most people expect a huge ship to play.
I do need to give Epic: Fighter Squadrons a try. Looks fun!