47 minutes ago, Nytwyng said:Yeah...I'm just being "That Guy" right here.
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While I, as a long-time comics fan, readily accept the "protecting my loved ones" trope regarding secret identities and personal attachments, it still strikes me as a bit odd when I think about it (a bit too much, maybe). Years ago, fleshing out my own personal super-hero "universe," I had a Superboy-type character whose secret identity was revealed beyond repair. His response was to publicly advise his enemies not to try striking at him through his loved ones, because it would be a really bad idea to make an incredibly powerful teenager that angry at them.
To be fair here, while this HAS happened it has not happened in all renditions of batman. A good example is the justice League cartoon where we know Bruce and Diana had a thing but he actively avoided a serious relationship. Even the person he marries isn't some commoner that can't handle themselves it's catwoman who has shown time and again she can handle herself and all of his sons are almost as good as he is, in some areas they are better then he is, they already knew the risk and were perfectly capable of taking care of themselves and in many cases he didn't go looking to form those attachments he avoided them as long as he could, but he formed them none the less because he is human. Still the point stands that having attachments and loved ones increases the risk of corruption and crimes of passion from super powered beings that the Jedi council wants to avoid as best they can if they have no restrictions on it at all they risk at least a few of their members being susceptible to both crimes of passion and to Blackmail and their members have a responsibility to the galaxy to avoid letting that happen. Also they can't just NOT train them because then they risk super powered beings figuring out how to use their powers on their own without any discipline what so ever and without having trained people able to stop them should they go over the deep end. It is kind of a weird thing where you have a galaxy that for 1000 years had thousands of super powered beings running around and only 2 in the whole galaxy were villains all the rest were paragons of Justice all because they learned to be compassionate and to be selfless from a super young age and where no one had the risk of having a crime of passion or being black mailed with the death of a loved one all because they avoided having loved ones that could enrage them to commit crimes of passion or that people could use to black mail them.
In the end it is the most efficient super hero training academy to ever exist standing for 1000 years training hundreds of thousands of students of which 2 went bad in that entire stretch of time (technically like 4 because of the clone wars but still) because of an overly protective, but effective, code.
Edit: to be further fair to the jedi order it isn't like Yoda has shown no emotion he actively hurts at the loss of the younglings and his fellow masters, but he doesnt let that cloud his judgement. Obi-wan loses Quigon who is his master, and Loses Anakin which is his apprentice even Anakin loses Ahsoka who is his apprentice. In fact the Jedi order considers letting go of your master and letting go of your student as a great test for both as it is an attachment that is usually formed and it is something both will have to deal with. In essence it tries to minimize the number of attachments you form while ALSO teaching you healthy ways to handle such things in the means of master student bonding.