7 hours ago, Tvboy said:So I have a question... are players expected to read out loud their entire list to their opponent?
I always do so, unless I have it printed out in which case I just hand that over instead; but I always take the initiative to make sure my opponent knows what I've brought. A game that's decided by an upgrade or squadron that one player didn't realize the other had is one of the least satisfying ways to win or lose, and it's a natural time to ask clarification if there's a card/squad I'm using the other person isn't familiar with.
3 hours ago, WAC47 said:Who goes through all of the trouble to set up an armada game and then rage quits? Especially with the offer to start over?
Maybe it's just because I've only had a chance to play one game in the past month, but it makes me a little angry to hear about someone wasting the opportunity to play like that. Some of us would love to have that kind of time.
13 hours ago, SQUIDwarrior said:Sounds like your opponent is just a sore loser (and the fact that this was just a casual game is just sad)
There's many different types of sore losses. This sounds like probably the least bad type, which is "overly beating themselves up over a frustratingly self-inflicted mistake". Like I said - " **** , I didn't realize he had that" is one of the most unsatisfying ways to lose a game. It's way worse than normal stupid mistakes, like forgetting to use an upgrade you brought or activating in an order that you immediately regret.
If that got to his head and he got tilted, going home was probably the most mature action he could've taken.
Not getting frustrated in the first place is the ideal we all strive towards, but we're all not Buddha (well, maybe one of you is, but statistically only one of you) and we all have bad days where we're already a bit off-kilter from the get-go. More important than not getting frustrated is recognizing when you already have been. If you need to just call it a day to avoid bringing other people down and cool off, then good on you for seeing it.
I'm not saying it's necessarily not a pattern for this person, he could well just be a *** loser and do this every time he loses a match. But off one data point, we've got no reason to assume the worst. Everybody has bad days, and even if 99% of the time he's a great opponent, this would be the only match of his where you'd read about him here.
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