1 hour ago, Ender07 said:So aside from the topic of if the player was being a whiny d*ck.... My main question now would be should I be capturing his character instead of killing him off as per his request? Capturing him and turning him to the Dark side would rob him off his "epic death" by saving the group... Because IMHO he wasn't saving anyone due to the fact that they are in this predicament due to his stupidity...
Seeing as it isnt really possible to force someone to play a character they dont want, no matter how whiny the reason they dont want it, you are going to have to change that character. At that point going for the capture is a good idea. Depending on how badly things are screwed up, if it were me I might roll back time a bit. That sort of player stupidity shouldnt screw the whole group. Another idea is to just skip it. Go on to the next bit saying that it was a miraculous escape and its too bad what happened to the character in question. Then have him come back later.
However, you should make it abundantly clear that his behavoir is unacceptable. The proper thing he should have done is discussed this with you outside of the game and given you a chance to plan out the death scene, not him being a whiny little b and derailing the game with his passive tantrum.
I will say tho, that when he started to act up, you should have stopped the game right there and talked it out, not let things get to the point where the game is derailed.