4 minutes ago, slowreflex said:You should also not forget that it's entirely possible for both parties to be correct, even when applying facts to the situation.
Much of the time, people are not that far apart. In some cases, the parties involved can sometimes even discover that they're both arguing the same point, just differently! I've definitely had a few of those dawning realizations of "why are we arguing, anyway?".
However, there are certainly times when both parties can't be correct, as in the Middle Ground Fallacy example above - no matter what I might believe, you are correct when you tell me that two plus two is four. I can accept that, or I can find myself very confused at the end of the day. Even the "Green Sky" argument cannot have both sides being correct - except from their respective points of view. Green Sky has been told his entire life that that color in the sky is the color "green". Blue Sky has been told that it's the color "blue", and that light filters through the atmosphere in such a way as to give it that "blue" appearance, and that humanity's naming conventions have named that shade of light "blue".
Sometimes you can both be right. Sometimes you can only both be right if you really twist your facts around to make yourself right.
And most of the time, people aren't that far apart to begin with, they just think they are. We're all just fallible people, and if you start with that presupposition and assume the positive intentions of those with whom you converse, it's a lot easier to have these kind of discussions.