The fundamental thing I think needs to be understood is that we can all feel different things and simply feeling a different way or having a different opinion is not wrong. If this discussion was prefaced on "how does everyone feel about flotillas?" or "I was thinking of some houserules just for me to use" then it would be quite different. What's contentious is proposing communal action based on how a minority of a group feels. That's when you need more concrete proof and definable terms of what is or isn't acceptable and get buy-in from others. That can be used to sway people to your side, set up a plan to address what seems to be unfair or incorrect, and then at that point if you were successful at selling your point of view you've become a majority and changes are easier to petition for, and if made, are more readily accepted. Asking for compromise when there's no real consensus on what is or is not thematic and what is or is not Star Wars and whether or not there's an actual problem in terms of gameplay, competitiveness, or fairness, is just a bridge too far. And when a majority doesn't seen a cause for action, the status quo remains with no need for compromise.
To use a very silly example, if I rang your doorbell and told you that I felt I deserved to take your house and your car as my own personal property and you told me that you felt that I was entitled to none of those things, I doubt you'd find any wisdom in a retort of "why don't we compromise on just your car because we both feel differently?" Regardless of our opinions, the laws support you and not me, and therefore it's not incumbent on you (the party favored by the laws we're all equally bound by) to compromise to resolve the dispute.