Lots of salt in this dumpster fire of a thread on both sides.
For me, if my opponent wants to put their admiral on a 4 - 5 hit point ship that's combat ineffective and useless against accuracy rolls, then that's fine with me.
If that's their last ship and the commander makes a getaway, I'm fine with that too. That means I've still mostly tabled them.
I didn't realize that this was such a problem.