With the exception of blinded pilot these all just seem like forms of control to me. Control should absolutely be a valid form of gameplay. I know it can be a bit frustrating at times but thats kind of the point of throwing a monkey wrench into someones plans.
As far as NPE goes thats very much an arbitrary thing thats going to differ from person to person. In my case I don't find things to be an NPE unless there are no counters to something or if it is something that is out of either players control. Both of which I don't think exist in X-wing right now.
Edited by Rear Admiral Nerf