I can't say you are completely wrong, just very black and white. I feel like this sort of thinking is very dismissive and overly simplistic. It's not a polarizing view where on one side I don't care about epic and on the other I am so desperate for FFG to give me what I want that I quit the game.
I do play my own games of epic and have fun but it would be nice if they supported epic a bit more like providing prize support and including side tournaments at more FFG run tournaments.
None of this was ever whining about not being able to enjoy myself. It was just an idea I had to try to rally support for a cool alternate play format to spice things up. As far as "do what you want and stop waiting for a game manufacturer" goes, writing this post is "what I want" and I don't see how seeing if there are others who feel the same is just "waiting" for anyone. Competitive X wing where there are prizes (trinkets) involved is not the only thing I get out of the game but it is a fun aspect of it.