Thanks for all the good input. I am slightly less stumped now.
However I will say he was definitely not unarmed or outmatched. He had a Demolisher, as it was one of the cards he picked out of the list that he wanted to try because even he, with precisely 0 experience in the game, saw shooting after movement as a strong upgrade. His ISD was gunnery teams, X17, leading shots, but other than that I tried to go as trim as possible on the upgrades. My exception was titles: myy own ships were naked otherwise (Salvation, Jainas ((trc doesn't count a cr90A right? I mean it practically isn't a ship without it)), and Mon Karren) and Tycho, and that is what got me in trouble.
I will say that perhaps even my philosophy of "barest of upgrades" was too much when you look around and see that I typically defaulted to titles and those tend to be the most "break-ey" out of all the upgrades. Tycho in hindsight was a total mistake against a first time player because it pretty much ruined the squadron game on his end, but I hadn't thought about that ahead of time.
Edited by BrobaFett