You have yet to convince me that not playing my opponents figure for him is cheating. There is nothing in the rules stating it is. Until such exists it won't be seen as cheating. The rules everyone has pointed too are in almost every other FFG game and none of them rule on the side you all seem to think they do. I see now reason for IA to be any different.
Simple answer really.
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The answer is yes, both players are responsible for maintaining the game state. Mandatory triggers are both players responsibility to recognize, both positive and negative.
I would describe your position as simply as being in denial. Recognizing a trigger but consciously not doing this to gain an advantage is simply cheating. End of story. Exact same expectations as with the other miniature ffg game, such as rebel captive.
Edited by Amraam01