Going back to tutorial mode and teaching the missus how to play. No focus, actions, obstacles or upgrades. Just pure manoeuvring and shooting.
Tute mode means she's not overwhelmed by the amount of abilities and actions to have to keep track of yet and it gives me some practice flying against an unconventional opponent.
Once she becomes more confident we'll start to add in the advanced pieces.
In the meantime she pick ships it based on pilot artwork and I have to balance an opposing squad using random amounts of squad points. Sometimes that means squads of 2v1 sometimes 3v2. Our next game is going to be 4v2. Having said all that, we don't add any extras - be it ships OR rules - until she's confident with what we're using.
I always fly the smaller squad to ensure I dont automatically get position advantage by virtue of flight experience and numbers. I also don't insult her by going easy on her either. That doesn't mean I play hard core though. It's still a fly casual situation so if she forgets to do something or accidentally picks right instead of left that's no big deal, just do what you meant to do.
The most satisfying part, is that she's having fun with it.