I'm saying that there are ways to "win" in this setting that don't amount to self-elevation. Like I said, in the unquoted portion of my post, if your character gives his or her life in the service of the Empire, it's a victory. Neat, perfect, "happily ever after" endings are and should be rare in L5R.
A eat, perfect, "happily ever after" ending is something honor demands (obviously, as anything less would leave you with fear, regret, and/or desire). The fact that these endings are so rare is a clear indication that honor is indeed rather feeble in Rokugan. It isn't about self-elevation (as it would also invoke the Three Sins) but simply being infallible, incorruptible, and pretty much invincible all the time. You can say that everything else (like "dying for your Clan/the Empire" or sepukku) is just an excuse for failure and a way to justify weak honor so that people can call themselves samurai and not have Honor 10.0 (the level where true honor begins).