I've been playing since Super Bowl weekend here in Las Vegas. Most of my games have been monthly tournaments, a couple store champs and the Cancer Tourney. I place in the bottom every time as I haven't played against as many lists and I'm still trying to find a list I love. Every experience has been great, I love the game and the community out here at least is fantastic. People are patient, fun and the lists are diverse. During the cancer tourney I didn't play the same list twice. Casual vs Competitive depends solely on the player. Me I'm casual every time do I want to play well absolutely, but not at the expense of the experience. X-wing is a game period. Games are meant to be played for fun. If you're not having fun then perhaps a different game. The swag is fun but at the end of the day doesn't change that its just a game. every match I fly against whatever the person has chosen to fly and and against the level they play. If I win, cool, if not thanks for the match it was fun. Be the player you want to play with and against and watch the impact it can have in a positive way on your area.
I can't like this post more. Keep on having fun dude!