Last event I was at I got called an ******* for denying a shot with a PS 8 when my opponent fired with his PS 7 first. My opponent took it well, but someone I consider a friend who had the bye and was observing the game said that I was being an *******, that what I was doing was sh*tty, and that he hoped karma catches up to me.
All in the name of flying casually. I like the guy, he's one of my favorite opponents. But now I have to deal with this hostile atmosphere.
I can't seriously pretend to be offended, but I'd rather play the game in a polite atmosphere with friends. I don't expect him to allow me missed triggers.
Some people detest the atmosphere under which every slip up of that kind, consequential or not, will be brutally exploited by the opponent. It can make the game feel pressured like an exam or worse confrontational. A lot of people don't like that in a game they're playing to relax and enjoy.
Outside of a tournament, if you want people to play with you, you've got to conduct play in a way they're comfortable with. They're not obligated to play with you and if they don't enjoy playing you they won't. While I'm generally on good form I don't enjoy playing against an opponent that's looking for every timing slip up he can to latch onto. My response won't be to threaten you or get angry. It'll just be to not play you again.
Inside of a tournament, it's a case of choosing maximising your chances of winning a few bits of plastic and bragging rights or maximising the quality of the atmosphere. Again, whichever is more important to you.
also, in the case of accidentally shooting with the 7 instead of the 8 first, unless you had a ship firing inbetween, whats the big deal? there are so many things that happen ina tourney, jitters to excitement to fatigue... why be an ass like that and deny the shot? I dont think i would ever do that... unless of course my opponent has already proved himself to be the same kind of ass. Then, I'll be a bit vindictive I'm sure