Thanks for emphasizing my point Para.So I was reading about Snooker today. interesting sport. At the highest level of play, they have what I think Doug and other fly casual advocates were looking to emulate.
Per Wikipedia, it states- "Professional players usually play the game in a sporting manner, declaring fouls the referee has missed, acknowledging good shots from their opponent, or holding up a hand to apologize for fortunate shots, also known as 'flukes'."
Unfortunately, Fly Casual has become so gummed up between Paragoombaslayer's "Screw over your opponent at every opportunity. But be nice about it!" and (insert username here)'s "If you fly me off the board you're an awful human being", that it basically means nothing anymore.
What's wrong with that? I'm polite and I follow the rules. I'm flying /casually/ with a laid back attitude.
Nothing wrong with letting your opponent move his ships at the same time and then put focus tokens down, and then withdrawing consent for his missed opportunities when his ships are range 1 of your 5 red Interceptors next turn when he misses all of his action opportunities.
My point is that the points between what "Fly Casual" means are so broad between one side and the other, that it's impossible to identify what it really means. You say flying casual is taking advantage of the rules as written to the fullest extent, to the point of risking making the gaming experience extremely uncomfortable for an unassuming opponent as long as you feel it is done politely, and the other far extreme says that anyone who would be "dirty" enough to do what the rules allow when a mistake is made, even when they are fully deserved, is not flying casual because they made them pay for that mistake.
What I'm saying is that all that matters is that you're polite and follow the rules. That's flying casual.
Doing what I did is certainly more casual than firing out of PS order and having a, "you serious bro? Are you ******* serious? Do you /really/ want to play that way? It's just a casual tournament bro" fit when I deny you shots with your PS 8's because you fired first with a PS 6. Because of "fly casual", people fly sloppy and expect to have their hand held.