Are We Part of the Problem?

By Grayfax, in X-Wing

Have not read the last 29 pages but has anyone pointed out that the reason there are few women playing this game is because, as my wife would say, its just a sill game with plastic things and dice and its not that intresting?

Yep, like 22 pages ago or 24..

the thread was done already at page 5-6-7-8

is there a tldr on this whole thing? or a link or something?

its not that i`m not interested in whatever the topic is...i just cant figure out WHAT the topic is. it`s very noisy in here.

there was a cool link about dutch TV prorgam, island survival, two groups and feminists.

but the link is gone D: maybe the feminazi reported it?

maybe you'll google this unexpected experiment article for the glory of it

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29 pages of this ****?

Wow.

Heads.

Shake them now.

For shame!

Edit: Also of note. Previously on Whose Thread is it Anyways, when it was suggested men should endeavor to treat women with respect because it seemed like a nice thing to do people got called sexist and the thread got locked. So some tumblr (like hello, warning light) writer has a spat and calls all white men terrorists and no one locks this ****?

WTF is that huh? Like I'm proper church-going insulted now. Like, where's my mo-fuggin congressman... sorry, congressperson.

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Well, I think we all learned something important here today.....

When it comes to post like these, they're like this bunny!

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and the thread keeps on going... and going... and going.. and going...

and going... and going... and going... and going...

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Sexual harassment in the gaming community is a huge deal and the fact that some assholes get so up in arms just from people trying to talk about it only proves how big an issue it is.

Ah the insufficiently supportive of the revolution charge. Good one.

For the record I've tried to get girls into it but it hasn't interested them. I've done my part, have you OP?

Quick question though: why aren't more guys into scrap booking? Are you into scrap booking? If not, why do you perpetuate the sexist stereotypes of arts and crafts?

As for harsh reactions...What do you expect? People also don't like the implicit "you are guilty by default" stuff. You come making that charge, then wonder why you get a negative reaction? Especially with the condescension doing from sine of the supporting comments? Really?

I hate these threads because they seem to exist solely so people can do some moral preening about how they care so much more than you, and by the way you should stop what you are doing and reflect on your life and the bad things you or someone like you has done, entirely at the discretion of some internet stranger. That some other guy will show up in a month saying the same thing is irrelevant, we should confine wag our beards as though these are deep ponderings.

...How can actively blocking and attempting to shut down discussion of sexual harassment be seen as anything other then condoning it? You are not required to read or reply to this thread so the only reason anyone would feel the need to barge in and try to shut down the conversation is if they are afraid that this will lead to them getting caught.

If we hadn't we'd still be in grass huts to paraphrase Camille paglia.

So, in a post where we are wondering how to combat anti-woman behavior, you link to a site that the Southern Poverty Law Center has called a hate group.

This is the sort of bull behavior that I am condemning in the strongest possible terms. Hobojebus, you are a blight on our community. Please behave better or leave.

is there a tldr on this whole thing? or a link or something?

its not that i`m not interested in whatever the topic is...i just cant figure out WHAT the topic is. it`s very noisy in here.

Op posted a link, (some) people read it and pointed out the the article was full off trigger words and generalizations but wasn't very good. Generally polite discussion ensued. Trolls riled them up and 10 page argument of consent & when is it OK to stare ensued. Argument died out/ trolling stopped and they patted themselves on the back. Someone mentioned gamer gate for reasons unknown and it started back up.

Sexual harassment in the gaming community is a huge deal and the fact that some assholes get so up in arms just from people trying to talk about it only proves how big an issue it is.

Ah the insufficiently supportive of the revolution charge. Good one.

For the record I've tried to get girls into it but it hasn't interested them. I've done my part, have you OP?

Quick question though: why aren't more guys into scrap booking? Are you into scrap booking? If not, why do you perpetuate the sexist stereotypes of arts and crafts?

As for harsh reactions...What do you expect? People also don't like the implicit "you are guilty by default" stuff. You come making that charge, then wonder why you get a negative reaction? Especially with the condescension doing from sine of the supporting comments? Really?

I hate these threads because they seem to exist solely so people can do some moral preening about how they care so much more than you, and by the way you should stop what you are doing and reflect on your life and the bad things you or someone like you has done, entirely at the discretion of some internet stranger. That some other guy will show up in a month saying the same thing is irrelevant, we should confine wag our beards as though these are deep ponderings.

...How can actively blocking and attempting to shut down discussion of sexual harassment be seen as anything other then condoning it? You are not required to read or reply to this thread so the only reason anyone would feel the need to barge in and try to shut down the conversation is if they are afraid that this will lead to them getting caught.

My opinion is correct. If you don't share my opinion and try to disagree with me then you are the problem. You might think that its fine to sit in an echo chamber and fellate yourself on how enlightened you are but as long as you're discussing this on an open forum you'll have people who aren't going to agree or sit and take your opinion in stride. A couple pages back you were saying how sure you were that you had accomplished something great here and how nitpicky trolls couldn't ruin it be derailing with gamergate. Hurricane Maanen was the second person to mention gamergate it hadn't once come up prior to that in any significant form and best of all it was after you all jerked each other off.

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If we hadn't we'd still be in grass huts to paraphrase Camille paglia.

So, in a post where we are wondering how to combat anti-woman behavior, you link to a site that the Southern Poverty Law Center has called a hate group.

This is the sort of bull behavior that I am condemning in the strongest possible terms. Hobojebus, you are a blight on our community. Please behave better or leave.

Nobody cares what SPLC calls what. (and telling the truth, SPLC has zero authority, not only on DA INTERNETZ)

A fact is the most stubborn thing in the world, because it persists despite all the bashing and labeling.

That's true, and that's a real issue. People should be called out for making that kind of "joke".

I maintain though that time itself, and the ever evolving social construct we live in is fixing it.

More and more people, as a general percentage know that this kind of attitude is not ok.

So yeah.

Fly Casual.

F**k SJWs, they can all go to hell. The PC brigade don't help, they just overblow everything.

and can we PLEASE HAVE OFFICIAL XG-1 GUNBOATS NOW?

It isn't "fixing itself". _people_ are fixing the culture. They are doing that by _calling out bad behavior as bad behavior_.

Which is the point of this thread. It's telling people that bad behavior is happening, what bad behavior looks like, and is a call to fix it.

Also "polically correct" means "trying not to be an *******".

That's true, and that's a real issue. People should be called out for making that kind of "joke".

I maintain though that time itself, and the ever evolving social construct we live in is fixing it.

More and more people, as a general percentage know that this kind of attitude is not ok.

So yeah.

Fly Casual.

F**k SJWs, they can all go to hell. The PC brigade don't help, they just overblow everything.

and can we PLEASE HAVE OFFICIAL XG-1 GUNBOATS NOW?

It isn't "fixing itself". _people_ are fixing the culture. They are doing that by _calling out bad behavior as bad behavior_.

Which is the point of this thread. It's telling people that bad behavior is happening, what bad behavior looks like, and is a call to fix it.

Also "polically correct" means "trying not to be an *******".

No, politically correct means trying to control what other people are allowed to experience because you think you know what is best for them.

PC means you are intentionally trying to be a *******.

50 years ago it wasn't PC for my parents to be married to each other. It was actually illegal, because a bunch of jagoffs running around were telling everyone how such a union would destroy our culture and create abominations.

Bomb kid breaks all the same school rules that a non-muslum would be suspended for, instead he gets invited to the White house, and his teachers have their jobs at risk. (protip, his dad was a Shariah law apologist trying to defeat a ban on Shariah law that was coming up for vote in his city) The neighbors of the San Bernadino muslum terrorists didn't report the suspicious behavior, because they saw how much trouble you get in when you report legitimate concerns about those types. PC doesn't just destroy lives, it murders. PC is murder!

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Nobody cares what SPLC calls what. (and telling the truth, SPLC has zero authority, not only on DA INTERNETZ)

A fact is the most stubborn thing in the world, because it persists despite all the bashing and labeling.

Right. And Return of the Kings literally supports **** by literally organizing actual rallies for the purpose of making **** legal.

That's a hate group. And the fact that someone approvingly linked to that group in this thread is kind of proof that there's a problem.

is there a tldr on this whole thing? or a link or something?

its not that i`m not interested in whatever the topic is...i just cant figure out WHAT the topic is. it`s very noisy in here.

Op posted a link, (some) people read it and pointed out the the article was full off trigger words and generalizations but wasn't very good. Generally polite discussion ensued. Trolls riled them up and 10 page argument of consent & when is it OK to stare ensued. Argument died out/ trolling stopped and they patted themselves on the back. Someone mentioned gamer gate for reasons unknown and it started back up.

Sexual harassment in the gaming community is a huge deal and the fact that some assholes get so up in arms just from people trying to talk about it only proves how big an issue it is.

Ah the insufficiently supportive of the revolution charge. Good one.

For the record I've tried to get girls into it but it hasn't interested them. I've done my part, have you OP?

Quick question though: why aren't more guys into scrap booking? Are you into scrap booking? If not, why do you perpetuate the sexist stereotypes of arts and crafts?

As for harsh reactions...What do you expect? People also don't like the implicit "you are guilty by default" stuff. You come making that charge, then wonder why you get a negative reaction? Especially with the condescension doing from sine of the supporting comments? Really?

I hate these threads because they seem to exist solely so people can do some moral preening about how they care so much more than you, and by the way you should stop what you are doing and reflect on your life and the bad things you or someone like you has done, entirely at the discretion of some internet stranger. That some other guy will show up in a month saying the same thing is irrelevant, we should confine wag our beards as though these are deep ponderings.

...How can actively blocking and attempting to shut down discussion of sexual harassment be seen as anything other then condoning it? You are not required to read or reply to this thread so the only reason anyone would feel the need to barge in and try to shut down the conversation is if they are afraid that this will lead to them getting caught.

My opinion is correct. If you don't share my opinion and try to disagree with me then you are the problem. You might think that its fine to sit in an echo chamber and fellate yourself on how enlightened you are but as long as you're discussing this on an open forum you'll have people who aren't going to agree or sit and take your opinion in stride. A couple pages back you were saying how sure you were that you had accomplished something great here and how nitpicky trolls couldn't ruin it be derailing with gamergate. Hurricane Maanen was the first to mention gamergate, it hadn't once come up prior to that and best of all it was after you all jerked each other off.

You see

That's what really bugged me the most.

"We did a really great job here guys!"

I was like, "W-wait what? No... Not... Not really, honestly."

It really baffled me.

Nobody cares what SPLC calls what. (and telling the truth, SPLC has zero authority, not only on DA INTERNETZ)

A fact is the most stubborn thing in the world, because it persists despite all the bashing and labeling.

Right. And Return of the Kings literally supports **** by literally organizing actual rallies for the purpose of making **** legal.

That's a hate group. And the fact that someone approvingly linked to that group in this thread is kind of proof that there's a problem.

If something is "illegal" there are special departments for those matters.

And as long as they keep facts straight, there is no problem with anything.

After all, vision of "proper" society structure and system has shifted, DRAMATICALLY shifted over the ages.

That's just a normal state, no matter if someone likes it or not, today's "politically correct" vision can, will and should change over decades. because that's just the way it is.

If we hadn't we'd still be in grass huts to paraphrase Camille paglia.

So, in a post where we are wondering how to combat anti-woman behavior, you link to a site that the Southern Poverty Law Center has called a hate group.

This is the sort of bull behavior that I am condemning in the strongest possible terms. Hobojebus, you are a blight on our community. Please behave better or leave.

So your sides calling white straight guys terrorists in a display of both racism and sexism but I'm the blight.

If you can't see the hypocrisy there then there's not alot of hope for you.

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Well.

Okay. I did not bring up gamer gate, someone else came into the thread, called it crap in a rant, and I react. Sorry about that, McFoy.

To whoever said "the feminazi reported it" that's cool, but I didn't. As the only woman who's come forward in this thread that's such an awful way to talk.

My eyes have been opened about how xwing community as a whole views women. Thanks for that, guys. I'm out.

If you think that this thread is represenative of how the xwing community views women then you have some other issues you need to deal with.

If you think that this thread is represenative of how the xwing community views women then you have some other issues you need to deal with.

Right? Epic generalizing is generalizing.

Thread about [subject] is not representative of a forums' views on [subject]?

Have not read the last 29 pages but has anyone pointed out that the reason there are few women playing this game is because, as my wife would say, its just a sill game with plastic things and dice and its not that intresting?

If that would objectively true than males should not be interested in their plastic crack either. I object your theory that women are just to smart for dumb male hobbies! :P

The game is interesting, it comes with star wars toys, star wars is awesome. So the game is alone for the models awesome.

Does not mean that there are not other awesome past times. Miniatures game players are a niche group among gamers anyway. And at least in the places in Europe I have been, table tops are the niche group even in your FLGS. At the same time females seem to buy into X-Wing just fine. If that is the case here, why is it not the case at your place?

Well.

Okay. I did not bring up gamer gate, someone else came into the thread, called it crap in a rant, and I react. Sorry about that, McFoy.

To whoever said "the feminazi reported it" that's cool, but I didn't. As the only woman who's come forward in this thread that's such an awful way to talk.

My eyes have been opened about how xwing community as a whole views women. Thanks for that, guys. I'm out.

Gamergate is a skubtastic topic, there's a reason I made a point to walk out when it was mentioned. It's very divisive.

Go ahead and take your ball and go home though. Just know that any opinion I make about that, I make about you, not women in general.

But haven't you heard you can't be racist or sexist against straight white men.

Yes, us poor, downtrodden white men who have CONTROLLED THE WORLD FOR A THOUSAND YEARS.

Thanks for showing your opinions mean less than nothing.

Discrimination in any form is still discrimination. But I guess according to people like you, it's alright if it's happening to straight white men.

You make me sick. And I pray to God that you have no influence over the next generation to breed your willfully ignorant and hateful views.

Oh you are such a poor thing, you get discriminated based on your privileged position in society. You get advantages others can only dream off, but sometimes this will cause you minor problems and this makes you sick.

Do you have a broken fingernail as well? Your poor thing. You are aware how silly your whining is?

No, it is not alright, but it is not a systemic problem either. If it happens to you, it usually is a small nuisance, so grow a pair and man up. (irony intended)

I actually agree with Hobo on this one in principe. Descrimination is discrimination, everyone is effected. It is irrelevant in that context that SWMs are discriminated against less, the fact is that they are just because they are. Any discrimination there does not serve to cause equality, rather will only further pointless conflict.

Basically, EVERYONE. EVERYONE, LITERALLY FRAGGING EVERYONE needs to treat everyone else equally.

Stop blaming single white males for bloody everything.

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While you are at it, leave out us Married white guys. We don`t care, we`re married, we have our own problems. (But we are really REALLY good at not staring... because we have to be, trust me on this)

Also, **** you all for making me pull out caps, italics bold AND underline.

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The greatest thing about it all is that my GF who also plays X-wing (and soundly beats my arse and arses of half of local community)

Sits right next to me and can't stop laughing. Quite literally, I quote "Christ, my cheeks hurt smiling already"

because all it took for her to earn respect of the community was the same I had to. Put minis on the table and faceroll a couple times against most vocal ones

And the rant about

My eyes have been opened about how xwing community as a whole views women. Thanks for that, guys. I'm out.

just makes us both smile. Oh the hypocrisy, blaming someone for generalizing and then generalizing them.

I actually agree with Hobo on this one in principe. Descrimination is discrimination, everyone is effected. It is irrelevant in that context that SWMs are discriminated against less, the fact is that they are just because they are. Any discrimination there does not serve to cause equality, rather will only further pointless conflict.

Basically, EVERYONE. EVERYONE, LITERALLY FRAGGING EVERYONE needs to treat everyone else equally.

Stop blaming single white males for bloody everything,

Again emphasis and perspective, You are absolute right, that goes without saying.

What seems not to go without saying is that the amount of discriminating I as white, male, foreigner experience is on a whole different magnitude than a black, female american would experience here. Just because we both might get discriminated there is no equality between me and the this extreme example. Though maybe this goes without saying as well for everyone and I just got the wrong impression.