The other night in a game I had my dwarven Grudge Thrower and enough resources and characters to trigger it's effect 3 times (Spend a resource and sacrifice a character to give all attacking or defending units a (power) icon). I triggered it the first time, then my opponent played a tactic card that destroyed the Thrower "in response" to the GT being used, then "in response" I triggered the GT again. I'm pretty sure this is allowed, but the question got hung-up on whether I could trigger the GT a third time, "in response" to my using it the second time. Thus, I would have gotten 2 uses of the GT, then it would have been destroyed, and then not on the board for the last use.
My opponent (and a few other players) argued that I shouldn't be able to use the GT the third time, as I was responding to my own action. Although being able to trigger the GT twice successfully would have won me the game (I eventually lost), I decided to rule in favor of my opponent, and to check later for how the action/reponse window works (from what I've read so far, I'm not the only one who finds the description a little vague).
How would this work -- could I keep triggereing a card (any card, not just the Grudge Thrower) as long as I can meet the play requirements as "in response" actions? Is there a point where the action/response chain ends and resolves outside of changing phases? Was my opponent correct?