Granted, I'm not married, but I'm definitely a nerd and all holidays are definitely negotiable with the girlfriend.

For Valentine's Day, she hung out with a bunch of her lady friends and I went with 3 other dudes to the Huntsville Alabama Store championship, which one of us won. It was rad, and there were no ill side effects because communication and compromise are healthy parts of a relationship.

Oh you poor fool she's just filed it away to use against you at a future date, you have much to learn young one.

Oh man, casual sexism in gaming. Who would've thought?? I wonder why someone felt the need to start that "gaming chicks" thread...

I play most of the same games my husband does so we end up spending the time together. Solves the problem.