When I was playing competitive 40k rules where rules and you did everything according to them. that said phases in 40k are much simpler than in x-wing to resolve but the rules are far more advanced. nobody in that community strayed from the rules. X-wing is a different community and has a different feel to it. The atmosphere between players is much more friendly and even in tournament play people are having fun playing the game. The point of fly casual is not to take it too seriously or take advantage of your opponent in an un sportsman like way. There is tremendous room for error in this game between ships being bumped around and inaccurate peg to template interaction and so many other things this is simply an inaccurate game in many respects.
My code of conduct on this is simple.
if you forget to take your action and no ships have shot you may take a focus
if you forget an effect in the combat phase I.E. FCS , and dials have not been picked up yet for the next turn then resolve them.
if resolving a missed action or effect would change any completed event between the missed opportunity and the discovery of then it is not feasible to go back. if you forget to cloak then your opponent declares an attack on your phantom then sorry that is too late.
Denying an opponent the resolution of an action or effect based on minor timing errors or lapse in memory that they clearly would have intended to resolve and have no unbalanced effect on the current situation is nothing more than poor sportsmanship. If you believe in fly casual you would be there as a fellow player asking if they remembered to do that action. Not watching with greedy eyes waiting for the moment to pass so you can rule Nazi them. Those who take such actions are not acting in the interests of the X-wing community.
Of course this is a game with rules and of course we all try to follow them. And yes there will be players that attempt to use your good will to take advantage of you but we should not allow those few people to destroy the comradeship within this community. The position put forward in this podcast is a move in the wrong direction. Whatever happened to you to make you so jaded in this respect is yours to deal with. If you want to allow zero deviation from exact rulings you are more than welcome to but you should make sure you explain that to the person across from you before the game starts. A game should be played consistently from start to finish either allowing for minor deviation or not but both players should be aware from the start.
Edited by mprhead5