I doubt the TIE/fo mass produced ship is significantly harder to fly that a regular TIE fighter. It's probably easier since it can handle the stress of maneuvers better.
X-wing pilots get a chance to fly TIEs in simulators, if I'm remembering X-wing the PC game correctly. X-wing the PC game is canon to reality.
As far as Wedge surviving, that's the mark of a veteran.
Poe Dameron did all those fancy maneuvers with the help of his droid.
R2-D2 was murdered by Darth Vader before Luke made his shot down the exhaust port.
Is Jar Jar Binks dead by now at least?
Senator Binks was dissolved with the rest of the senate at A New Hope.

