@Norsehound.. Thanks for all of your suggestions!
I have more points than he and he typically chooses to go second. He always chooses Most Wanted and I only previously had 2 ISDs (I officially like the idea of bringing 1+ Raiders into the fight with me for this purpose), and I would be forced to choose my non-flagship and he would light it up...
It looks as though he is taking second player and picking the objective? If so, that is not how it works, the first player picks the objective from the second player's objective pool.
Yes, yes.... I appologize for typing that wrong... he chooses ME to be second and chooses that objective... My bad