Now in a casual setting? Do what ever floats your boat. I regularly help people when they make mistakes with dials or when they make actions that do little for them at that time. But this wasn't the case here, this was a National level event.
And by all means, what you want and pray for in every game is that it be decided by a lapse in the first turn of the game that has absolutely nothing to do with the actual skill of playing X-Wing.
I know that's what I go on Twitch to see!