So a new player turns up to your club Hobo, and you'd say "Nah, I'm not playing you, I don't like your list"?
Way to make someone feel welcome.
No I wouldn't be that blunt but I would explain why bringing a tournament list without warning to a friendly game is a faux pas.
Then I'd ask if it was alright to make a squad able to take it on.
And again I ask why should anyone be expected to play a game they won't enjoy outside a tournament?
There's the rub; nobody is forcing you to do anything. If you refuse to play TLT SWARM, that's entirely on you and everyone is going to have varying reactions to that.
It's when you start controlling the conversation and policing behavior where people might take issue with your value in any given community.
In the end, you must remember how much FUN you have playing this game at all times; during the good times and the bad times. Win or lose. Tourney-Mode or Beer-N-Pretzel-Mode. Play for fun.
Don't keep trying to redefine what "fun" may or may not mean to you.
Edited by lazycomet