Second, for silence:
You guys know how there's those noise cancelling headphones?
Here's how they work: They have microphones in them. They pick up outside sound, and they reverse the phase of such sounds, then add that to the sounds going into your ears.
The basic principle of any wave in a media (in this case, air), is that if you combine two waves at 90 degrees of displacement from each other (if you look at a graph you'd see they basically look like they're always going in the opposite direction from each other), they both cancel each other out. In the case of sound, this creates, you guessed it, silence.
So, no need for any weird crystal or anything like that. Just add a microphone and a speaker to your saber, reverse the phase, kaboom. Silent saber.
Forgive me if I'm missing something but noise cancelling headphones the counter soundwaves are created at the receiving end not at the generation point. Further the sound emanates both from the generator (within the hilt) and the blade itself. So maybe you could dampen the sound of the generator but you'd be hard pressed to do that for the blade. Sort of like how suppressors work on the explosive sound of a gun going off but do nothing for the sound of the bullet travelling.
Edited by FuriousGreg