You may like or dislike the the actual outcome, but what is happening abstractly is different.
The ship that is actually doing the ramming is trying to decelerate to avoid hitting. If the ship cannot perform a legal move then it stays still causing the 1 damage to each ship. You can imagine this damage minimal because the ship slowed down enough to only cause a fender bender.
I personally don't like the rule, but I can appreciate what ffg is doing.