Hi,
While I appreciate all the hard work that goes into redesigning a new website from scracth, and that you can't possibly please everyone, a quick survey over the foruns is enough to realize the new design has a fair share a problems and is, at best, hardly consensual. No point in repeating all the negative issues here, they have been already clearly pointed out by a lot of people. IMO, the new website feels quite sub-par when compared to the previous one.
I therefore humbly suggest bringing back the old design and refocusing your efforts on trying to implement the novel things (friend lists, library, etc) you have brought into the old format. As an IT specialist (albeit not a webdesign specialist), I don't believe that would be so complicated at all.
If you're not willing to do so, then please at the very least:
-loose the animations
-cut back on the ads
-change the color profile, or make it configurable
Thanks and keep up the good work
tibor