This one seems clear cut, opponent was in error - treat as pilot stress.
If you opt to redo, he can place his dial to an optimized point knowing potentially what you've done. - not right.
If you opt to allow it, he just ignored a fundamental rule, where do-overs aren't appropriate. - not right.
If you opt to have a 5 page discussion on the straw man logical fallacy based on this... well don't do that.
It was opponent action that caused the stress, were it your TACO(also the name of my cat) My wife (mara jade - when angry causes stress to all around her), a stress bot, or any action of your own that causes the stress, I could see argument for a missed opportunity provided that you yourself missed the action to give stress.